North Country
Maija and I just finished watching North Country, with Charlize Theron and Sissy Spacek. Man… very powerful movie. Maija’s still wiping the tears from her cheeks, but at least they’re smiling cheeks (due in part to my kisses, naturally).
For those who don’t know, the film is set in Minnesota in the 1970s, and is the story (based on true events) of women mine workers and their struggle against sexual harassment. It’s directed by Niki Caro, the New Zealand born director of Whale Rider (if you haven’t seen Whale Rider, rent it soon time). Also staring is the ever excellent Sean Bean (who once sued Rowan Atkinson for his Mr. Bean character).
I’d give this movie 4.5 / 5 stars. It’s truly a well made film, doesn’t pull it’s punches, and is an important message to get out. It was surprising to my naive self to hear that up until the mid 70s, no women were employed in any of the mines. Cause the 70s AINT that long ago.
My lovely wife and I were discussing rape, and payback, two themes that are prevalent near the end of the movie, and she asked what I would do if someone was assaulting her (not rape specifically). It’s certainly not a pleasant question to answer, as a husband and a man who knows (on the good days) right from wrong. I told her that if I encountered someone assaulting her, or was made aware of a person assaulting her on an ongoing bassist, then that person’s number was up. However, if I hunted down someone who had assaulted her, to exact revenge on said person, I believe that is wrong. I would be loth to continue the cycle of hate and sin that the enemy only wants me to continue, but I would also hate for my wife to feel that I am not/would not be protecting her.
Where do you think that line is drawn? No really… where?
hmm-very interesting Jon.
I’d say part of the line is taking the law into your own hands. We in Canada are blessed to have a legal system that does work, that is commited to the safety and security of the inhabitants of the State. As I’m sure you’ve heard before (our former Sr. Pastor literally wrote the book on it…) the more serious line is holding unforgiveness, and wanting the offending party to be caught for the sake of fulfilling your own thirst for revenge, as opposed to being proactive in wanting better security and peace for your partner, as well as for potential victims.
So here’s my take: comforting your partner is a duty, reporting to the police is both a right and a duty for the sake of society, but wanting revenge and/or taking it into your own hands is wrong.